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Fitness Your Way

Archive for December, 2009

itsdeductible-online-thumbOne of the hardest thing about a clothes donation, is trying to figure out what each item is worth.  Here’s a free software you can download that will help you determine values of your donated items plus track your donations all year long.  Click here to take a look.

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Growing up, going to church was an important weekly ritual. It’s wasn’t great. Not terrible. My parents required my attendance in church until I was in 9th grade and then it was my choice whether to go or not. I chose not to. I still prayed on occasion, but mainly asked God to make me more popular at school and to make me irrisistible to the boy I had a crush on that week.

I went along my merry way until at 19 years old when a relationship I thought was headed toward marriage, crumbled. I became so sad that I resigned myself to the fact that if I had to carry this pain for the rest of my life, I couldn’t do it. Friends and family can only console you so much, you know.

Since I didn’t want to end my life, I set out on a quest to reacquaint myself with God. I visited many churches, looking for one where the people were “serious about God.” I found one. After a few months, I wanted to meet the pastor and ask him a few questions about my friends of different faiths.

Well, I don’t remember what his answers were but I do remember that he asked me this question, “Lisa, if you were to die tonight and God were to ask you, ‘why should I let you into my heaven?’ what would you say?”

I didn’t know the answer but I thought it must have been something like, ‘I tried my best to be a good person and not hurt anyone’.

Then he explained to me how my sin, kept me apart from God. (Isaiah 59:2) But that God wanted me to live forever with him in heaven. (2 Peter 3:09) Therefore, God had a dilemma. How to get me into heaven? So he sent Jesus to earth to die as a substitute for me, like a pitch hitter (my word picture) (2Cor 5:21). And if I believed that Jesus did that, (and by “believe” I mean that my actions and life would be the proof of my words and my thoughts) that I would get to go to heaven (Acts 16:30). And not only that, I would discover why I’m on this earth in the first place (Ps. 139:16).

After that, the pastor asked me if I wanted to invite Jesus Christ into my life. And what was my response to the pastor?

I was so insulted I wanted to scream!

I knew all that! At least, I had heard bits and pieces of that story my whole life! OK…well… maybe I couldn’t put all the pieces together the way he did, but I definitely had heard all that before. How utterly embarrassing! How did I get into this mess?

Now it was I, not God, who had the dilemma.

On the one hand, I thought I already was a Christian and so I wanted to tell the pastor “no” to the invitation of Christ. On the other hand, I really was desperate to know God better than I had known him growing up. So I had a major battle going on in my mind between my pride and my desperation.

I finally chose desperation over pride and prayed to invite Jesus into my life. But only on the outside! The real sparks would fly after I got to my car that night.

It was a crunchy January night and about 30 degrees below zero. Inside my car I trembled from the cold and shook from my shock and disbelief at what had just happened. I burst into tears and cried out in horror as I drove away from the church, “Why did he think I don’t know you, Lord?! Who have I been praying to all these years if it’s not you? DON’T YOU KNOW ME?

Well, I didn’t get an answer. Not just then anyway.

I kept attending that church and got involved in Bible studies and classes and retreats. I learned how to study the Bible in ways I had never known before. I learned how to pray and how to share my faith with others. I started a whole new life! It was so cool. I had never known what it was to live in a spiritual dimension at the same time as a human existence.

After about a year, God answered that question I had hurled at him (“Don’t you know me?). He made it clear to me, without using any words, that all those years growing up, I had been ACQUAINTED with Him, but I was never COMMITTED to him.

I don’t know what your background is with church or with God. But I do know that having tender feelings toward God and praying on occasion is not the same thing as having a relationship with Him. I’ve tried it. It’s fruitless and boring.

What I’ve discovered is that the God of the Bible is real, personal, communicative, funny, holy, perfect, understanding, comforting, directing, patient and kind.

And since you can’t get to know someone unless you spend time with the, the same is true with God. Forget what others have told you about him. They may be right, they may be wrong. Forget Christians who have hurt you. That’s history. Everybody’s on a journey making mistakes as they go, but they are merely obstacles that you can jump over on this marathon race with Jesus Christ.

If you’re just getting started, find a church that is passionate about knowing Jesus Christ and considers the Bible the inspired Word of God. But don’t expect going to church to be the end-all. That’s just the beginning! Get into a good Bible study with people who are crazy about God and are growing in their love and knowledge of him…people who are becoming more like Jesus every day.

Then make it a point to find friends who you can walk this journey of faith with. I promise you, you will never regret running after God with all your might! But you must seek after him! He has already sought after you, bought your life with His, and he knows the paths you should take! Not only that he’s crazy about you!!

If you need a sugesstion for a church near you, call KTIS at 651-631-5000 or go on-line at www.ktis.fm and look for church-finder.

I’m praying for you!

Lisa Barry
9AM- 2PM Midday’s on KTIS Radio 98.5

Here’s something I read on Dec. 23rd about God’s heart  as we interface with people this Christmas who don’t understand, who are annoying or argumentative.   It’s a little food for thought.

My thanks to KTIS listeners, Kelly, Audrey, Dean, Sonya, Doreen and June for their fabulous volunteer efforts on Saturday! You can find more volunteer opportunities at www.ICanHelpTwinCities.com

droughtYep!  It’s true.  Join me and KTIS listeners as we support the efforts of Amore and Fede (Ladies clothing botique) in their determination to bring food and medicine to the children of  Kenya, Africa.  Grace Church is sending a mission team there  in January, armed with tangible hope and help.  They will be the hands and feet of Christ and you can too! 

Who:  Amore and Fede

What you can do: 

1.  Every gift card purchased, 100% of the proceeds will go to the mission to Kenya. 

2. Every piece of jewelry sold, 100% of the proceeds will go to the mission. 

3. Bring donations of canned good for a local food shelf and you will recieve a free pair of $8 earrings. 

Where:  Amore and Fede  Edina location    Excelsior Location

When:  Saturday, Dec. 19th  10:00 AM – 5:00 PM

FYI: Malnutrition rates in children have soared to 24% in some areas. To cope with scarcity, Kenyan families are pulling children out of school to work or beg for food, or they are cutting back to one meal per day.

 James 1:27
“Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and oneself from being polluted by the world.”

shipSince this is about the last day to order things on line and get them by Christmas, Many retailers are offering free shipping today!  Find out who by clicking here.

sales clerkHere’s a project that will be fun for you and me, but be absolutely life-changing for those who will be helped by our efforts!  KTIS is teaming up with Amore and Fede (A darling women’s botique) and Grace Church, to help with Kenyan relief.  Things are tragic in Kenya right now and Grace Church has a team that will be headed down there to help in the spring.  We’d love to be able to arm them with everything they need.  What can you do to help?  Plan to join me on Saturday at either the Edina or the Excelsior store to volunteer.

You might be doing one or two of the following…

serving cookies* Greeting customers and serving treats and refreshments.

* Handing out flyers explaining the Jewelry & Gift Card donations (100% of the jewelry and gift card sales go to Kenya relief).

* Taking in any food donations for ICA and helping customers  pick out their $8 free earring gift for their donation.

* Heselling jewelrylping customers (& encouraging them) pick out jewelry and purchases of $10 Gift Cards.

You can pick a time to volunteer that works for you:

10 AM – 1:30 PM  Excelsior or  Edina

1:30 PM – 5 PM    Exceslior or  Edina

Just send me an e-mail and I’ll sign you up.  We’ll have fun!

Here’s a video that shows what happened on the last trip to Kenya.

Kenya 2007 from Grace-Church on Vimeo.

amorefedeIf you love fashion, and also have a heart to serve others, necklacehere is a fun opportunity this Saturday, Dec. 19.  No heavy lifting, no standing in the cold, and you can even go shopping as a part of your service!  Amore and Fede is a quaint women’s boutique in Edina and Excelsior and the owners are raising money for Kenya where people are suffering so severely.  Money goes to digging wells and medical supplies.  I’m looking for volunteers on Saturday between 10 AM – 5 PM to work at either store.  We’ll be seated at tables helping people buy gift cards and jewelry where 100% of the proceeds go to Kenya relief.    purseIn fact, you could do all your Christmas shopping and know that your money is going to a good cause… but that’s just another fringe benefit.   And there’s a little gift incentive for you too, if you sign up.  Just e-mail me through the link at the right or call 651-631-5048 to sign up.  If you can volunteer for 4 hours, that would be great.  You can choose either location (Edina or Excelsior).  We’ll have a blast!! Read more »

homemade-muffin-mix_300If funds are tight this Christmas, or you just need a thoughtful hostess gift for a party you’re attending, here are 14 beautiful, homemade gifts that will delight the recipient.  Click here to view them.